Asuelu Pulaa

Mother Asuelu has arrived in Kentucky 🙌

Asuelu and his family’s money situation from a Samoan’s perspective

As a Samoan, we have a tradition where any time there’s a family or church event, such as a funeral, wedding, fundraiser etc, you’re expected to help out the family and send money to help cover costs. It’s expected, but not mandatory. Asking for money is normal, but his family is going about it the wrong way. Our culture is all about family,but the family you create is the one you have to put first. What’s normal is your family asking if you can chip in 100 dollars to give, and if you don’t have the money, it’s no big deal. What’s not normal is demanding 1000 dollars just because they said so . That’s not the way the tradition works and I just wanted to clarify for people not familiar with Samoan culture. I’m aware that some of it is probably staged.No, I’m not trying to justify his or his family’s behavior . This post is to help inform, not gain sympathy for them. I didn’t think I’d have to mention this, but also ;not all of us are like them.

Asuelu spotted in FB dating

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First time watcher of Season 6 and Impressions for Episodes 1-6

Steven and Olga - Steven makes me crazy. He is a complete psycho and the way he acts like a 6 year old while Olga is in the hospital is nonsense. Being a complete jerk about washing hands before touching the baby is EXTREMELY REASONABLE. Olga is a saint for putting up with him, but also seems like she is so incredibly alone. Steven strikes me as the type of man who beats his wife and kids for being disrespectful and that they made him do it. Leida and Eric - Eric appears to be aging in front of my eyes each episode. It is impressive that he has such a good relationship with his ex-wife. His apartment dirtiness is gross and he needs therapy for his depression. Leida is scary. She completely ignores her son. He's either with her sister, Eric, or her parents. And being mad about paying child support 🙄 get real. There is something off with her parents. Ashley and Jay - they're doomed. She is delusional for thinking that he is going to be faithful and he tells the barbershop he wouldn't be getting married if he could be in America another way. And her kicking her best friend out of the wedding for bringing up concerns is not cool. I bet they divorce as soon as he gets his green card. Asuelu and Kalani - they are the poster child for purity culture. Get pregnant the first time you have sex, have nothing in common long term, doom a child to grow up with parents who have a toxic relationship. The lack of understanding of different cultures is glaring. They are also doomed, but the question is how many more kids do they bring into this world since condoms are for sluts? Jonathan & Fernanda - his comment after their fight at the club that she doesnt have the maturity to deal with this situation is absolutely spot-on. The age difference is too much and she's too young while he is also too immature. There is usually a reason women your age don't want to date you, Jonathan... Neither of them seem like bad people, but I think they're also doomed.   submitted by   /u/TheLaurenLauren [link]   [comments]

What couple were you rooting for that ended up not working out?

Whether there was a shocking scandal, a separation after marriage, culture shock issues, or anything in between. Was there ever a couple you were really hoping would make it work but just didn't? For me, I really wanted Kalani and Asuelu to work out. Kalani seems so genuinely nice and they have beautiful children together.   submitted by   /u/ssweetheart270 [link]   [comments]

What happened to some of the older figures who used to be on the show (like Angela)? And I mean in terms of time on the series, not actual age. But also, why didn't a lot of the couples from the early early seasons come back on spinoffs, etc. in general?

I didn't know what to tag this, but I have a question. What happened to the older figures on the show, like the people who were on the earlier seasons? I'm thinking Angela, Erika and Stephanie, Avery and Ash, Kalani and Asuelu, etc.. I do have kind of a related second question: Why didn't a lot of the couples from the early early seasons appear on spinoffs and things like that, like some of the later couples (or individuals)?   submitted by   /u/tachibanakanade [link]   [comments]

The vacation romance to K-1 pipeline is basically its own 90 Day genre at this point

Okay, watching Marissa and Edward sent me down a rabbit hole and HOLY CRAP. How many times has this franchise given us basically the exact same relationship? An American goes on vacation, falls for the hot bartender/resort employee/boat captain/tour guy, falls in love with the vacation version of him, and then is SHOCKED when real life is nothing like the resort. I made a list lol: • Marissa met Edward working at her hotel in the DR • Molly met creepy ass Luis bartending in the DR • Daniele met 6’7” hotel fitness instructor Yohan • Aryanna met Jamaican tour boat operator/swingers resort employee Sherlon • Stephanie met Ryan while vacationing in Belize • Jessica met Colombian cruise ship bartender Juan • Tania met Syngin bartending in South Africa • Ashley met 20-year-old Jay at a bar in Jamaica • Jordan met charter boat captain Everton in Grand Cayman • Mallorie met boat captain Rașit on a girls’ trip • Melanie met resort lifeguard Devar in Jamaica • Kalani met resort activities director Asuelu in Samoa • Jonathan met teenage Fernanda at a club while vacationing in Mexico • Amber met Daniel while partying in Costa Rica • Ari met Bini while traveling in Ethiopia • Ellie met Victor while visiting Providencia • Tiffany met Ronald while visiting South Africa • Corey met Evelin while backpacking through Ecuador • David met Annie while living in Thailand, where she worked at a hotel and sang in a band Obviously, these relationships are not all identical, and some of the foreign partners behaved horribly too. I am absolutely not pretending Luis, Yohan, Asuelu, Jay, etc. were innocent angels. But the pattern is definitely there IMO. The person is hot, attentive, exciting, and “exotic” on vacation. Then real life hits and suddenly they’re expected to be grateful, agreeable, financially dependent, and easily molded into the American partner’s existing life. And with the Black and brown partners especially, I absolutely think race, money, citizenship, and power are all tangled together. They’re desirable while playing the fun resort fantasy, but suddenly “uneducated,” “lazy,” “using me,” or disrespectful the moment they act like an actual equal. Melanie and Devar and David and Annie are important counterexamples because they prove the vacation setup itself doesn’t automatically doom anyone. The real difference seems to be whether you fell in love with an actual human being or just the fantasy of being adored on vacation. Thoughts?   submitted by   /u/Inside-Age5826 [link]   [comments]

Difference in vitriol for Jasmine and Kalani

Was watching 90 day diaries, and learned Kalani’s current relationship started when she was still married to Asuelu. Didn’t know that, but it made me curious about why we see so many commenters here have more hate for Jasmine “stepping out” on Gino, while I don’t recall ever seeing comments like that about Kalani/Dallas and their baby. personally, I think Gino and Asuelu are both dirt bags and don’t judge Jasmine or Kalani for the way they exited their marriages. also, Kalani having serious convos while still wearing her Halloween costumes 😂😂   submitted by   /u/Significant-Yam-4990 [link]   [comments]

Why did Jovin tell Big Head to ask Liz permission to go to the strip club but not tell the other women?

Alright so spoilers for Last Resort S1 in case anyone hasn't seen it yet. Early on in the season Jovin says he knows a stripper in the area and asks if Kelly and Asuelu want to go to her club. They say yes. Now we know that Molly is somewhat OK with this because Kelly said so and we all saw Luis' bachelor party at Magic City. "Death of the single life. Oh ma gah." Also, apparently Asuelu said Kalani once gave him permission to go on his birthday but he didn't for some reason. Regardless he was way to happy to go knowing his marriage was on the brink of a divorce. Then we have Jovin who got slapped by his wife the last time he went. Knowing this they make an agreement not to tell the women about it. This is all fine until Jovin decides to be nice to Big Head for some reason and invite him under the same stipulation that he not tell Liz. He immediately does and the following day tells the guys that he did. To this Jovin has the dumbass idea of telling him to call Liz and ask for permission to go but to tell Liz to not tell the other women as if that's at all plausible. I don't get it? Liz already knows. We know damn well ain't no way she's just going to keep that to herself and on top of all that Jovin tells him to call her while all the women are out together so obviously the women are going to be right next to her during the call. What am I missing? It's almost like he thought pissing off his wife would be a great idea.   submitted by   /u/JJ_Lomero [link]   [comments]